Speed dating is one of the quickest ways to meet several singles in one night. Each 'date' lasts a few minutes, then everyone rotates. At the end you mark who you'd like to see again, and mutual matches get each other's contact info.
Before You Go
Quick prep:
- Register early — popular age groups sell out
- Dress one step nicer than your everyday look
- Eat beforehand so you're focused, not hungry
- Arrive 10–15 minutes early to settle in
Questions That Work in Five Minutes
Skip the job interview. Try:
- What's the best thing that happened to you this week?
- What would your perfect Saturday look like?
- What's something you're looking forward to?
- What made you decide to come tonight?
Pro Tip
Jot a one-word note after each round so you remember who was who when it's time to pick matches.
Follow Up the Right Way
If you match, message within a day and suggest a specific plan. Something like 'I loved hearing about your trip — want to grab coffee Thursday?' beats a generic 'hey.'
Find Speed Dating Near You
PJmatch lists speed dating and singles events in cities across the USA. Browse the Events page, RSVP, and see who else is going before you show up.