Speed Dating & Singles Events in New York
Tired of swiping? PJmatch connects you with real New York singles online first — then brings everyone together at local events, speed dating nights, and meetups across the city.
More Ways to Meet Than Another Dating App
New York has plenty of singles nights — the hard part is knowing who's actually worth your evening. On PJmatch you meet people online first, then take it offline.
Speed Dating Nights
Fast, fun rounds of mini-dates so you can meet a dozen New York singles in one evening — no awkward small talk with the wrong crowd.
Coffee Meetups
Low-pressure daytime hangouts at local cafés. Perfect if you prefer a real conversation over a loud bar.
Group Socials
Mixers and themed socials where members meet as a group first, so first dates feel like seeing a friend again.
Member-Hosted Events
Members can create and RSVP to their own events — from game nights to rooftop and park meetups — all inside PJmatch.
How It Works
From first message to first handshake in three steps.
Create your free profile
Sign up in a couple of minutes and tell us who you'd like to meet in the New York area.
Browse and chat first
Message New York singles before the event, so you walk in already knowing who you want to talk to.
RSVP and show up
Reserve your spot on the Events page and meet your matches face to face.
Why New York Singles Choose PJmatch
Speed dating events can cost $30–$50 a ticket, and you still don't know who's showing up. PJmatch is free, and you can chat with attendees before you ever leave home.
- 100% free — no subscription, no paywall to message
- Real New York-area members, no fake profiles or bots
- Chat before you meet — skip the cold open
- RSVP tracking and reminders built in
Your Next First Date Starts Here
Create a free profile, say hello to New York singles tonight, and RSVP to the next event — all in one place.